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Posted August 12, 2021
This week we had a senior man call into our office looking for resources to help him get through the month. The previous week he had been scammed his entire pension check. Scams like this quite commonly happen to seniors. The younger generation can see a scam from a mile away, but vulnerable seniors like this client do not always see a scam coming. Especially a senior who has no family to run these situations by. Isolated seniors are these people’s best chance at a successful scam.
The senior man told CCC that he had a little money saved that would get him through the month, but any resources that would help would be greatly appreciated. We told him about resources such as The Salvation Army in the community that would have fresh food and produce for him. He was very grateful! We had a gift card for Hofstede’s that was donated to Compassionate Care. I decided to put a little care package together for him with fresh produce from Hofstede’s to help him out until he would be able to get to the Salvation Army. He came in the next day to pick it up and he was so grateful.
This man just needed someone to talk to. He stated that he had no family or people around him to talk to. He found our number from our card in the Canada Day bags we gave out. He had kept the card and reached out.
Another remarkable thing is the senior home where he lives. I remember back in January trying to get the word out about Chilliwack Compassionate Care. I had a list of different senior homes in front of me and I asked God to match us up with the right one. The first place I called was this home. Things have just clicked there, and we have such a great relationship with that building, and many people have been blessed by CCC. I have enjoyed getting to know each person there and they have been a blessing to me too!
Posted July 31, 2021
I got a call from a man that really wanted me to talk to his girlfriend. She was pregnant and he was concerned that she was going to abort baby or even hurt herself. I asked if he could bring her by the office. He responded that she would not come in as she was super shy and felt awkward. I asked if we could text and that was okay with her! We did that for a few days, and she then felt comfortable enough to come in and have a face-to-face conversation. Many conversations later, and a promise that we would be there for her, she is now waiting for her baby to arrive!!! Times are still tough for her, but we will continue to be here for her and baby every step of the way!
Posted July 6, 2021
In January we started Chilliwack Compassionate Care. This is geared towards seniors in the community. Every week I deliver a loaf of bread to the homes of each of our senior clients. You would not believe how one loaf of bread can make a senior’s day! Especially when you throw a couple of extra sweets! I have enjoyed getting to know each one of our senior clients. When we started this bread delivery program it was meant to help seniors in a very practical way. Over these past couple months, I have realized how much a familiar face each week brightens these seniors’ day. With social restrictions in place, it has isolated many seniors whose only source of interaction was when people came to visit them.
One of my clients is almost 90 years old. She is very sharp and lives on her own. She is always sitting by the door, looking out the window around the time I arrive to deliver her loaf of bread. She is always cheerful and fun to talk to. She has many stories to share, and I love listening to them. As I got to know her over the past couple of months, she mentioned that she was married, and her husband had dementia and was in a care home facility. She loves to talk about him and share stories. One delivery day I walked up to her house and she told me that her husband had passed away. I went and purchased a flower arrangement on behalf of Chilliwack Compassionate Care to show her how deeply sorry we were for her loss. She had tears in her eyes, and she explained how hard of a week it had been. She told me how thankful she was for Chilliwack Compassionate Care. The following week I came by and there she was, waiting by the window in her chair. After I gave her a loaf of bread, she had a folded up piece of paper with her husband’s obituary. She wanted to share something with me that was so precious to her. You could tell how proud she was of her husband and how much she loved him. As I read this newspaper clipping it reminded me of how precious life is and how we have a short amount of time with our loved ones. Sometimes the friendly visits are worth more than a loaf of bread to these seniors.
Posted October 12, 2018
I was feeling both nervous and expectant as I walked into the Chilliwack Pro-Life office for the first time. My husband and I were on the waiting list at an adoption agency in the Fraser Valley, anxiously waiting for “THE phone call” that would make us parents. When days turned to months turned to years, we felt there had to be another way of reaching a pregnant mom who was thinking of making an adoption plan for her baby. Our social worker agreed, encouraging us to reach out to a wider network of people. She explained that “direct placements”, where the birth mom and adoptive parents meet before even going to the adoption agency (such as through a friend of a friend of a friend) was a quicker route to adopting a baby. (Handing out “business cards” to random strangers, another idea, went a bit beyond our comfort zone!) Her final suggestion was to get in touch with a local pregnancy centre.
Posted August 29, 2018
Earlier this year, someone came to our office with a great idea to create better connections with seniors in our community by visiting seniors’ living facilities in the area. While we have made great connections by serving moms and babies, we also want to show love to elders in our community who are sometimes neglected. We decided to bring gifts of flowers to seniors this past Easter with cards from the Chilliwack Pro-Life Society letting them know we care and are thinking of them. On Canada Day, we gave away gift cards for a free breakfast and some goodies. For many, the gesture of care was the first time they had heard of us and the work we are doing at Chilliwack Pro-Life. We encountered warmth and generosity in return, as some residents even expressed interest in volunteering at our Pregnancy Care Centre! Valuing life means valuing all members of society, young and old. It’s something all of us can do, even if in small ways, by spending time with someone lonely, or offering practical help. What steps can you take to make our culture and our city a more caring place? #storiesofhope
Posted August 9, 2018
Ten years ago, my aunt was diagnosed with a rare colon cancer. She was only 62 and a vibrant business owner who was active and healthy otherwise. She had worked hard all her life being a single mom of three kids, who were now grown and having children of their own. “Grandma” was never a word she wanted to hear, but let me tell you, she loved her six grandchildren with all her heart. Chemo and radiation were not an option as the cancer was very aggressive and too far gone. Her choice was to live life to the fullest she could. About two months into her diagnosis she went downhill very quickly. She wanted to be surrounded by family and friends in her last days. We moved her into my parents’ home and all her kids, sisters, grandkids, nieces and great nieces were by her side. We all took turns caring for her. My job was to monitor all her medication.